After some initial setbacks, Mende finally obtained asylum in 2003. She did so with the help of Damien and a storm of public protest. She has since become a British citizen. Mende now lives and works in London where she leads a happy and quiet life. She is married to a one time refugee and fellow member of the Karko tribe who she met while on a book signing tour in the United States.
When asked how she could have survived such persecution and torment for so many years, she responds "I'm a very strong believer in God, I have a strong connection with my family and the hope that I would see them one day. I think hope and determination helped me to survive during that difficult time."
In 2006 she realized that hope. With the help of private donators, Mende made the journey back to Sudan. Incredibly she was able to fly to a safe region of the Nuba Mountains where she met with her family for the first time since her abduction. Damien Lewis accompanied her on this perilous and emotionally charged trip, once again co-authoring a second book about this journey with Mende called Befreit (Freedom) which has yet to be translated and published in English. This compelling book shares with us the feelings and emotions she experienced reuniting with her family and her homeland.